At 40, I feel much the same. I like fannish people and fannish things. I like fandom drama when I'm well outside of it and it's things and people that I don't give a shit about. Generally speaking, my life is consumed with work and politics and at the moment, my own writing, so anything fandom related has gotta be fun or I nope out of there.

I read the first few sentences and this is the kind of drama that I'm uninterested in.