When I married the German we were relieved that his work came through with his Permanent Residency sponsorship not long after, because it meant we wouldn't have our relationship scrutinized. On the one hand, we probably wouldn't have bothered with wedding if his work hadn't dragged their heels, but on the other we're not together anymore so it's a good thing we didn't feel we had to stay together just so he could stay in the country.
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Date: 2016-11-14 11:50 am (UTC)